Fight the enemy inside you

We have often heard that we have our will power and confidence within us which helps us to take initiatives and decisions. It helps us in all the aspects of life. Well that’s true and I don’t deny the fact being told to us since ages. Well, along with a positive consciousness which is often named as will-power, confidence, determination or intuition we also have a negative side of our consciousness which is the enemy in the context.

Let me give you few examples to prove how your enemy beats you in most of the games during your day. Let’s start with the morning when you wake up. Try to set the alarm to 2 hours earlier than usual, you will observe that the very next day when it rings you will have something within you telling you to hold on to bed for 5 more minutes or 15 more minutes or will convince you that you can complete your assigned work even if you wake up 15 minutes later. May be we all know this and so we prefer taking some buffer time while setting an alarm in case of urgent events dependent on time.

Every time when you try doing anything different from your regular course of routine then you will find your enemy right active to convince you that your conventional routine is good enough to pursue. Also, it is hyperactive even at times when you are not active like while you sleep. It is awake round the clock to give you excuses and demands the pleasure of the moment.

Have you ever imagined that why most of us are not able to join the gym from the said date than when we have decided and land up resulting in postponing the plan to next Monday or next week onwards. Here comes the enemy into picture who is ruling us. Joining the gym is a routine we want to follow in order to tone up our body and bring up the change in our body that we aspire. The enemy will convince you to postpone the plans and will offer you more lucrative plans to enjoy.

When you are on diet and are tempted towards oily and junk food knowing that you have to control your diet. Your enemy will peek in and will suggest you that just a bite for once of the cheese cake or doughnut will not make a big of a different. But, right there you end up compromising your determination.

These are little examples how we are defeated by our enemy daily. But it is equally active at our business dealings and important decisions. It is smart enough to interfere in our monetary and business critical decisions too. Reason for this is very abstract i.e. we have allowed it at every point of time throught our days-weeks-months and it has now become our routine to follow our enemy’s guidance revolting our will master.

This is a major reason for our dissatisfaction and stress. Try to listen to your determinations and stop obeying your enemy. Take small gestures to commit what you decide overlooking the pleasure in the moment. Give a damn to your lazy thoughts and do as decided. You will see a significant difference in yourself. Go ahead! defeat your enemy and win a good life.

Feeling depressed or sad? Change it in a click

Are you feeling bad looking at your present situation? Are your friends earning way more than you? Do you feel your house is not as good looking as others? My car is not that expensive and luxurious? I am not as much happy as my friend?Ahhhh!!!! There can be many more scenarios but don’t worry we can get over it.

Just think why at all you are comparing yourself to any one else whether it is your friend or sibling or neighbour. Is that person a supreme being that you are considering him/her eligible to rank your status. No earthly being can ever be as important so as to let you down. Never think of becoming big in comparison to anyone. Have your own ambition and live your own dream. Every individual is capable enough to dream their own world in the best satisfying way which can never be compared to some one else’s dream. They are unique.

Is you want to a house. Have the passion to dream it. Imagine what you want where you want and his you want. Imagine your car. Plan your investment. Save your income as effectively as you want unlike how your friend does.

Try to achieve what you want and dream. One thing for sure, even if you achieve more than your friend whom you compare with, you will never be able to gain supreme happiness even after achieving the part of action.

Key take away:

Stop comparing yourself

Dream big

Work towards your dream

Live happy

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